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When Sleep Training Doesn't Work: What to Do Next

Sleep training can be a challenging process for many families. Despite following various generic plans, courses, or e-books, some parents find that their efforts are not yielding the desired results. If you're in this situation, it's important to understand that you're not alone, and there are steps you can take to get back on track.


The reality is that every child and family situation is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. That's why it's crucial to have personalized support and guidance during the sleep training process. Generic approaches often fail to address the specific needs and preferences of your family, leaving you feeling frustrated and unsure of what to do next.


When sleep training doesn't work, here are some steps you can take (in no particular order).


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Reassess the Approach


Generic sleep training methods may not work for every child or family situation. It's essential to evaluate if the current approach aligns with your child's temperament, age, and developmental stage. Sometimes, a different technique or a combination of methods might be more effective.


Hire a Professional Sleep Consultant


Bringing me on as your certified sleep consultant can be a game-changer. I have the knowledge and experience to assess your unique situation, identify potential roadblocks, and tailor a plan specifically for your child and family. I provide ongoing support, answering your questions and making adjustments as needed, without conflicting information.


While my services may be more expensive than generic e-books or courses, the personalized attention and expertise I offer can be invaluable. I take the time to listen, gather all the necessary information, and develop a customized plan that aligns with your goals and preferences.


Identify and Address Potential Roadblocks


Sleep training can be derailed by various factors, such as illness, developmental milestones, travel, or changes in the family's routine. Identifying and addressing these roadblocks can help get the training back on track.


Continued Support for Changing Circumstances


Even after successful sleep training, families often face new challenges like travel, dropping naps, sleep regressions, and more. My clients can easily reach out to me via email or text with any questions or concerns that arise. I provide guidance on how to navigate these situations effectively, ensuring your child's sleep remains on track.


Unlike generic sleep plans or consultants who only offer courses, I'm available to address your evolving needs. You won't feel frustrated or left in the dark when new issues crop up – I'm here to support you every step of the way.


Consider Underlying Issues


If sleep training continues to fail, it's important to rule out potential underlying issues, such as medical conditions, sleep disorders, or developmental delays. Consulting with a pediatrician or a specialist may be necessary to address these concerns.


Manage Expectations and Practice Self-Care


Sleep training is a process, and progress may not be linear. It's essential to manage expectations and understand that setbacks are normal. Celebrate small victories and remain consistent. Additionally, prioritize self-care by getting support from loved ones, practicing stress management techniques, and taking breaks when needed.


Remember, every child and family is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. By hiring a personalized sleep consultant, you increase your chances of success and can navigate the challenges of sleep training with confidence – even when new issues arise along the way.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​



 

Feeling overwhelmed by all this sleep talk? Need a little extra guidance? Dive into my ‘Pick My Brain’ consultation! In our 1-hour one-on-one session, we’ll break down the cheat sheet details and customize them to fit your child’s specific needs. Together, we’ll create a personalized plan to establish healthy sleep habits for your little one. Don’t hesitate to reach out for that extra support!



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